Everyone knows the greatest love of all is unconditional love. Loving someone but without expecting a return. Just waiting with hope and patience that one day it will come to you. But during that period of time, it may be one of the toughest period of time. I mean some of you may have experience this before. For those who didn't really experience, it may be a good thing or bad thing for you. Good in a way that you are attractive enough to have suitors waiting for you. Bad in a way that somehow you don't have that special someone that make you feel it is worth it. Those who is currently experiencing it, I know how you are feeling right now. I will always pray for those who waited patiently all these while for who they have been longing for.
Don't you feel that why you ain't have someone is beside you whenever you saw couples out there so lovely and compatible? But sometimes behind that relationship, they may have their shit times too! Being attached have it's adv and disadv I should say.
Love can be wonderful. It could turn out to be your pillar of strength whenever you feel like giving up on something. It could be the motivation for you to study hard and give your future partner a comfortable life. In short, it just gives you this extra additional strength that makes you think that "Life is actually worth living for."
At times shit do happen. Having to accept each other faults after being together is another factor. The first few months will always be STRENGTH. After that, it will always be WEAKNESS. Yes! No doubt about that.
It can be flammable if you ain't careful handling it. So tell me. What's the best way?
Maybe it will be nice to share something. People have been asking me this few repeated questions for quite long.
"Bobby, why are you still single after 3 years?" "Standard too high already right Bobby?" "It's time to settle down isn't it?" "You need any help? I can help you introduce." "Go find one gf soon. Both of your brothers have gfs too." "Too much choices?"
I'm actually quite numbed to it already. I shall just answer here. There is always this saying, "The more you want it, the further it seem." Yes, it works this way for me. I do have my liking and crush just like any other guys too. But I always can't be together with the person I like. Suitors? Yes. But it always not being able to click well or it just ain't the right one for me to think it is time to settle down. I want a strong and stable relationship that will last me, it will be better if it last till marriage.
At times I get really tired waiting but I always tell myself that I shouldn't give up. That is not the Bobby's way. Some words that may mean nothing to you can actually be a deep cut to the one who has been waiting. And whenever I can't take it, I will approach my best friend to rant at it. But what had happened, it gets tiring when you know it will never stop ranting. So what's the point? Might as well just keep to yourself isn't it?
Who likes to make themselves sound so down and lousy unless being hurt that badly? I will never be that way but today I just did. I always thought you know me well and is someone you actually take notice of but I was wrong.
To love or to be loved? It all actually depends on how you want your happiness to be like.
Before I end this post, here is something maybe you guys may find it funny. Before & After Marriage.
Before the marriage:
He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait. She: Do you want me to leave? He: NO! Don't even think about it. She: Do you love me? He: Of course! She: Have you ever cheated on me? He: NO! Why you even asking? She: Will you kiss me? He: Yes! She: Will you hit me? He: No way! I'm not such kind of person! She: Can I trust you?
Now after the marriage. Read it from BOTTOM to the TOP !!!!
